Managing Caring for elderly parents
A freshly launched website, Autumna, extends its support to self-funding families in their pursuit of top-tier care. They’ve recently shared a compelling article discussing the difficulties associated with caring for elderly parents who are in urgent need of support: Autumna Blog
The phenomenon known as ‘The sandwich generation’, referring to individuals juggling a career, personal life, their children or grandchildren, and their aging parents, is on the rise. This demanding phase can often trigger feelings of guilt and frustration.
When it becomes clear that your elderly parents need more support and you’re already stretched thin due to various responsibilities, finding the best care choices can be a daunting task. We rarely plan for such scenarios, leaving us unsure about what to look for or where to seek guidance. Moreover, the sheer volume of available information can be overwhelming.
A recent webinar involving over 300 participants who are responsible for their parents’ care showed common worries and inquiries associated with this situation. The following points emerged:
Planning
Planning caring for elderly parents in advance can alleviate stress and worry. Considering both the immediate and long-term needs of your loved one is vital, given that not all care facilities cater to every type of care, and costs can fluctuate.
Understanding the different service options
There’s an array of care choices. Knowing when each might be required and what services they offer is crucial. Care homes differ in their offerings, and future-proofing requirements are advisable. If you foresee the progression of early onset dementia in a loved one, a dual registered care home providing residential, nursing, and specialist dementia care could be an apt choice.
Funding
In the UK, care is means-tested. You might qualify for some state funding if assets fall below £23,250. If assets exceed this limit, you’re deemed a ‘self-funder’ until your assets reach the threshold, after which Local Authority funding steps in. Given the various questions surrounding care funding, obtaining independent financial advice is advisable.
You can explore more about your funding options here: https://www.northleachcourtcarehome.com/financial-support/
Making decisions on behalf of parents
Holding Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) is akin to an insurance policy. While you may hope never to use it, it could significantly ease your life and that of your loved one if necessary. Setting up an LPA isn’t as complicated or costly as you might think and could prevent many hassles.
Managing the emotional challenges
Accepting the role reversal and respecting a loved one’s independence can be strenuous, especially when their health deteriorates or a crisis strikes. Having difficult conversations about their needs can be challenging, and it’s crucial to not neglect your own self-care.
Providing support to parents
Family members are often the primary source of long-term caring for elderly parents. Providing this support can sometimes be simple, but it can also become a complex task. It’s important not to wait until you’re overwhelmed and seek help from family, friends, professionals, or community resources when required.
If you’re considering Northleach Court as a care choice for your elderly parent, be assured that our professional, caring team will offer expert support and guidance to you and your family members throughout the process.
